One of the first posts on this blog was “Frugal Tip – A Big Mac My Way“. The premise was you can pretty much get a Big Mac at half the price. This article had disappeared into obscurity until a reader posted the following comment:

daveking on April 12th, 2009 12:10 am

No offense, but this is getting on the borderline of cheap. I worked in retail before (Starbucks) and I hate it when customers do stuff like this to get a cheaper price. For example, they would order small coffee in a medium cup. After adding milk they get a medium cup. Also the kid’s hot chocolate is 99 cents. Two kid’s hot chocolate is the same as a grade hot chocolate which cost $3

The comment set me back a bit because I thought the whole bargain Big Mac idea was the greatest thing since man/woman discovered fire. Then I began to wonder if I was cheap and a few questions came to mind:

What is cheap and who defines it?

When I look up the word cheap at dicitionary.com one of the definitions is ” stingy; miserly”. Well that seems to have quite the negative tone and can’t possibly apply to me. Lets move away from the official definition and see what popular opinion has to say, I looked up the word cheap on Wikipedia and I get redirected to the word Miser. This doesn’t look good for me, I’ve never really considered myself to be a stingy miser like Mr.Scrooge. However these are just definitions and ultimately its your actions that truly define you as being cheap. This leads us into the more important question in determining if I am cheap:

What actions are considered cheap and how are those  judged?

People walk a fine line between frugal money saving and being cheap. There is no international rule book for cheapness but rather individual opinion. It is my belief that these individual opinions rely on two factors:

1 – The value you place on money – People usually consider cheapness as a reflection of the amount of money saved versus the amount of effort required. (e.g. pick up 5 cents and you’re cheap, pick up $5 and its your lucky day, or walk 5 extra blocks to save $1 on dry cleaning)

2 – Your moral objection – Your moral’s are a very big defining factor on what is cheap. People feel by getting a deal in a round about way that they are breaking the rules or cheating someone. (e.g. order pasta with unlimited bread and salad, fill up on bread and salad, take the pasta home with you)

In the end  Daveking’s individual opinion on what is cheap is based on a combination of the value he puts on money and how it conflicts with his morals. For me cheap is judged on my individual opinion so having a double cheese burger dressed like a mac isn’t considered cheap in my book. I save a $1.50 over a traditional Big Mac with no added effort so the dollar value is worth it. I also have no moral objections because I’m not taking advantage of the company. They have an explicit “dress like a mac” button that they charge me for. Would this be any different if I wanted my fillet-o-fish dressed like a mac ? Not at all. Now I would consider it cheap if I asked for 25 tomato slices on my burger and then took the tomatoes home to use on my salad for the next day.

Looking at  some of the examples that Daveking gave there is one we agree on and one we don’t. I personally think ordering a small coffee in a medium cup so that you can fill up the rest with milk is cheap. You paid for a  small coffee and in turn for a small cup. You are taking advantage of the fact the company is courteous enough to offer a larger cup as well as free access to the milk. You are cheating the company and therefore this conflicts with my morals. However ordering 2 kid’s hot chocolates instead of a regular hot chocolate is perfectly fine in my book. In the end the company has accounted for the cost of kid’s hot chocolates. Morally I’m fine because the company offered a product and you paid for it. I’m good with the dollar value  because a buck is a buck and requires very little effort other than the fact you now have to carry around two cups.  In the end people have individual opinions and some people will find your actions cheap while others will congratulate you on a frugal job well done.

I’m really curious about the varying opinion on what is cheap. Here are some questions that I would love to know if you consider them cheap and why:
1 – A double cheeseburger dressed like a mac.  It’s a $1.50 less than a big mac but tastes the same
2 – Order a small coffee in a medium cup to fill the rest up with milk and essentially get a medium coffee at a small coffee price
3 – Order 2 kids hot chocolate’s in leu of the equivelant adult hot chocolate. You save a $1.
4 – Pick up 5 cents
5 – Pick up $5
6 – Walk 5 extra blocks to save $1 on dry cleaning
7 – Order a pasta meal that has unlimited bread and salad. Fill up on bread and salad and take the pasta home with you.

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